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Meet AIR, our artificial intelligence resource. Built upon 15+ years knowledge, somatic practices, and family understanding.
AIR is available to you whenever you need, loaded with tools to help not just with the planning, also with how you are showing up and caring for yourself in the process.
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Instant Answers for YOU
Budget questions at 2am. Vendor contract confusion. Your mom's latest suggestion. AIR responds in seconds with actual guidance, not generic advice from Google. Built from 15 years of real wedding planning, it knows the difference between "book your photographer now" and "honestly, you can wait on that." Get 5 free messages daily, or unlock unlimited access for €19.99/month via Telegram.
Instant Answers for YOU
Budget questions at 2am. Vendor contract confusion. Your mom's latest suggestion. AIR responds in seconds with actual guidance, not generic advice from Google. Built from 15 years of real wedding planning, it knows the difference between "book your photographer now" and "honestly, you can wait on that." Get 5 free messages daily, or unlock unlimited access for €19.99/month via Telegram.
Instant Answers for YOU
Budget questions at 2am. Vendor contract confusion. Your mom's latest suggestion. AIR responds in seconds with actual guidance, not generic advice from Google. Built from 15 years of real wedding planning, it knows the difference between "book your photographer now" and "honestly, you can wait on that." Get 5 free messages daily, or unlock unlimited access for €19.99/month via Telegram.
Resets When You're Spinning
Four guided breathwork sessions for when your nervous system is running the show. Quick Grounding for immediate overwhelm. Pre-Conversation before difficult family talks. Decision Clarity when you're stuck. Anxiety Relief for general spiral prevention. Actually useful, not aspirational wellness content you'll never use. Accessible anytime through the bot; no app download, no pretending you're suddenly a meditation person.
Resets When You're Spinning
Four guided breathwork sessions for when your nervous system is running the show. Quick Grounding for immediate overwhelm. Pre-Conversation before difficult family talks. Decision Clarity when you're stuck. Anxiety Relief for general spiral prevention. Actually useful, not aspirational wellness content you'll never use. Accessible anytime through the bot; no app download, no pretending you're suddenly a meditation person.
Resets When You're Spinning
Four guided breathwork sessions for when your nervous system is running the show. Quick Grounding for immediate overwhelm. Pre-Conversation before difficult family talks. Decision Clarity when you're stuck. Anxiety Relief for general spiral prevention. Actually useful, not aspirational wellness content you'll never use. Accessible anytime through the bot; no app download, no pretending you're suddenly a meditation person.
Remembers Your Actual Wedding
Tell AIR your date, budget, venue, guest count once. It remembers. Every answer after that is specific to your situation, not generic advice for a hypothetical wedding. When you say "my budget," it knows you mean €60k for 80 people in Mallorca. When planning shifts, just tell it. Automatically extracts context from natural conversation; no forms, no data entry, just talk.
Remembers Your Actual Wedding
Tell AIR your date, budget, venue, guest count once. It remembers. Every answer after that is specific to your situation, not generic advice for a hypothetical wedding. When you say "my budget," it knows you mean €60k for 80 people in Mallorca. When planning shifts, just tell it. Automatically extracts context from natural conversation; no forms, no data entry, just talk.
Remembers Your Actual Wedding
Tell AIR your date, budget, venue, guest count once. It remembers. Every answer after that is specific to your situation, not generic advice for a hypothetical wedding. When you say "my budget," it knows you mean €60k for 80 people in Mallorca. When planning shifts, just tell it. Automatically extracts context from natural conversation; no forms, no data entry, just talk.
Knows When You Need More
AIR handles planning questions, nervous system support, and decision-making tools. But some situations need actual human expertise; complex family dynamics, major strategic pivots, or when you're genuinely stuck. It'll tell you when a 1:1 for deeper support makes sense. No pressure, just honest assessment of what you actually need. Book consultations directly at tohaveandtohelp.com when it's worth it.
Knows When You Need More
AIR handles planning questions, nervous system support, and decision-making tools. But some situations need actual human expertise; complex family dynamics, major strategic pivots, or when you're genuinely stuck. It'll tell you when a 1:1 for deeper support makes sense. No pressure, just honest assessment of what you actually need. Book consultations directly at tohaveandtohelp.com when it's worth it.
Knows When You Need More
AIR handles planning questions, nervous system support, and decision-making tools. But some situations need actual human expertise; complex family dynamics, major strategic pivots, or when you're genuinely stuck. It'll tell you when a 1:1 for deeper support makes sense. No pressure, just honest assessment of what you actually need. Book consultations directly at tohaveandtohelp.com when it's worth it.
HOW IT WORKS:
5 free messages per day to try
€19.99/month for unlimited access
Works via Telegram (no app download)
Remembers your wedding details automatically
Guided resets available anytime