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An Honest Hour. Fifteen years of weddings and no reason to sell you anything.
Remember when you thought wedding planning would be fun?
The thing with weddings….
Everyone has an opinion
Your dad wants his whole office there and your partner thinks fifty is already too many. Your mum has a vision, your mother-in-law has a different one, and somewhere underneath is what you actually want.
The budget maths makes no sense
£300 a head feels reasonable at lunchtime and insane at 11pm. You’ve had more conversations about money this month than in the whole relationship. And flowers cost how much?
Why a font takes a week
You handle complicated things at work every day. Here every small decision carries someone’s feelings, which is why a font can take a week. Of course you’re stressed.
Services
(After the hour)
Testimonials
“Best investment we made. Lucie has this rare combination of being extremely competent at logistics while also being genuinely fun to work with.”
Melissa
“It felt like having a deeply competent friend in your corner who’s done this a hundred times and knows exactly what you need to hear.”
James
“Even in a virtual environment, I felt seen, safe and cared for.”
Lily
“She anticipated everything before I had to ask, kept all the moving pieces organized, and somehow made a complex international wedding feel manageable.”
Natalie
(Before you book)
Questions
Anything else? hello@tohaveandtohelp.com
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I already have a planner.
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Can my partner come?
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Where are you?
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What if I want more afterwards?
